I remember that time when the Tangshan earthquake hit. So I made an appointment with my friend, took enough tissue, and planned to go to the cinema to have a good cry. As expected, the two of us didn't stop sobbing during the whole process. We used one napkin after another.
The whole movie, apart from tears, is moving. Let me know what is love. Love is the parents' unrequited effort for their children. Love is the instinctive reaction of sacrificing oneself at the most dangerous moment to let the lover live.
And the most touching scene in the film, which I still can't understand, is that at the moment of the earthquake, my daughter can't speak and beat the stone hard, looking forward to her mother's rescue. But the mother chose to give up her to save her brother. Sober she can only leave tears in silence. It was a heartbreaking pain. The little girl stood up for her brother in the face of violence; In the face of his favorite tomato, Kong Rong still let the pear, although he said a little. However, in the face of death, she was abandoned by her most trusted mother. I think it's more cruel than death. Why when faced with such a situation, the injured is always the woman?! Since ancient times, the situation of son preference has never been broken down. This is a real social problem, which is worthy of our consideration. Fortunately, the girl survived. The tenacious vitality is really admirable. It's hard to imagine a girl coming back from the dead after being abandoned. Wake up and look at everything around you, as well as the father lying in the heart of what will be like. Her speechless, her stubborn strong, people feel pity.
Because of her strong and stubborn, let her have a chance to get happiness again. The girl's foster parents were very kind to her and gave her all the good things. In particular, Wang Deqing, the adoptive father played by Chen Daoming, has been taking good care of his daughter. Knowing her tragic experience, she also took the initiative to help her find her family. If you care about the happiness of your adopted daughter, you can take off her uniform and beat and scold the smelly boy who failed his daughter. When her daughter disappeared, she was extremely anxious to find a place. In my impression, the adoptive father is not like his biological father, who is so careful to his children, but Wang Deqing in the film interprets such a great and tall adoptive father.
Now, the girl in the film is lucky. She has family affection, love and a happy life. But all of this was won by her own efforts. Strong through the disaster, through despair, the heart becomes extremely strong.
When the disaster comes, we may not be able to avoid it, but we can let our limited life leave no regrets and be calm in the face of death. Should those who feel miserable and want to commit suicide cherish their fragile lives?